How great connections improve our mental health

Mental Health & Wellbeing

Strong human connection is one of the most pivotal aspects of improving our mental health on a regular basis.  It provides a range of psychological, emotional, and physiological benefits. 

Here's how it does this:

  1. Reduction of Stress and Anxiety: Engaging in meaningful connections with others, triggers the release of oxytocin, a hormone that counteracts the stress response. Oxytocin promotes feelings of relaxation and lowers cortisol levels, reducing stress and anxiety.  We can’t help it, connection with others is great for us!

  1. Enhanced Mood and Happiness: Positive social interactions boost the release of good hormones like dopamine, often referred to as the "feel-good" neurotransmitter. These interactions lead to an uplifted mood and increased feelings of happiness.

  1. Emotional Support and Validation: Connecting with others allows us to share our thoughts and feelings, receiving empathy and validation in return.  Whether you’re laughing, crying, walking, talking it doesn’t matter - just the emotional support of being around others, fosters a sense of belonging and reduces feelings of isolation.  Engaging with others allows us to express our emotions out loud, helping us process them more effectively resulting in positive effects on mental health.

  1. Coping Mechanisms: Being able to confide in someone you trust about challenges or difficulties provides an outlet for processing emotions and developing effective coping strategies. This support helps us navigate through tough times.

  1. Increased Resilience: Knowing that there are people who care about us and have our backs boosts our emotional resilience. This makes it easier to bounce back from setbacks or tough times.  There’s always someone there to care for us, and that’s the most important mahi there is.

  1. Sense of Belonging and purpose: Connection cultivates a sense of belonging. Feeling part of a community or social network enhances our self-esteem and overall well-being. It can also give us a sense of purpose, as it provides opportunities to support others and contribute to their well-being. This can often boost self-esteem and provide life satisfaction.

  1. Reduced Risk of Mental Health Issues: Maintaining strong connections has been linked to a lower risk of developing mental health disorders like depression and anxiety. The emotional support and validation gained from connections act as protective factors for your mental wellbeing.  

  1. Longevity and Physical Health: Research suggests that individuals with strong social ties tend to have better physical health outcomes and longer life spans. The positive impact of connection extends to our overall well-being.

  1. Motivation: Connections can motivate us to set and achieve personal goals towards our own mental wellbeing. Having someone to share our progress with - talking through the highs and lows - creates a sense of shared motivation.

  1. Calmness and Comfort: Being in the presence of supportive individuals or spending time with loved ones can bring a sense of calm and comfort. It provides a sanctuary from the stresses of daily life.

Here are five tips on how to effectively leverage strong connections for your well-being:

  1. Open Up and Share: Utilise your strong connections as a sounding board for your thoughts and emotions. Sharing your feelings, worries, and successes with someone you trust can provide a sense of relief and validation. Opening up fosters a deeper connection and allows you to feel heard and understood.

  1. Seek Guidance and Advice: Tap into the wisdom and experience of your trusted friends and family when facing challenges. They can offer different perspectives, practical advice, and insights that you may not have considered. They’ll want to help!  And this is a great way to navigate difficult situations with more confidence and support.

  1. Celebrate Together: Sharing positive experiences and celebrating achievements with those you love can enhance your sense of happiness and accomplishment. Whether it's a personal milestone or a professional success, having someone to share in your joy reinforces positive emotions.

  1. Practise Mutual Support: Friendship is a two-way street. Be sure to offer your support and be there for your friends or loved ones in their times of need as well. Engaging in mutual support reinforces the bond and creates a reciprocal cycle of positive interactions.

  1. Engage in Meaningful Activities: Spend quality time with friends and family, by engaging in activities you all enjoy. Whether it's trying new hobbies, going on adventures, or simply spending relaxed time together, shared experiences create lasting memories and increase feelings of connection and contentment.

The power of connection lies in its ability to nurture our emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. Whether through friendships, family relationships, romantic partnerships, or interactions with colleagues and acquaintances, these connections contribute significantly to our mental health on a regular basis. Prioritising and nurturing these will make a positive difference for your mental health.